I get a lot of comments from people who say that they feel like someone is watching them. Since they know there is no one else around, they are pretty sure the feeling is coming from a ghost, and it freaks them out, makes them uneasy and anxious…and for some, it terrifies them. I know the feeling…been there and done that a time or two or a thousand! It’s not a good feeling. Seriously, it’s bad enough to have someone watching us when we can see them watching us, but to have “someone” watching us that we can’t see? Now that is a spooky, please-make-it-stop kind of uncomfortable. A big part of that fear is the unknown factors. Who is it? WHAT is it? What do they want? Are they going to attack me? Possess me? Do they watch me during private moments when I don’t want anyone watching me?
So, here’s the thing…those in spirit don’t have “eyes” the way we do and thus can’t actually “see” us in the way that we see each other. We live in a physical world and must use our physical eyes to see it. Those in spirit have “spirit eyes”. They sense us, can FEEL us, and they may even be aware of who we are BUT, they can’t actually SEE us or what we are doing. So go ahead and pee and don’t worry that a ghost is standing there watching! Really!
I used to worry about that…being watched in the bathroom…when I lived in the haunted house I’ve talked about in this blog. The idea that a ghost might watch while I took care of business made it very hard to relax and get it done! I couldn’t wait to hurry the heck up and get out of there! Now, of course, I realize that even if I was to sense a ghost in the bathroom with me…that ghost isn’t actually watching me do my business! They are sensing my presence and that’s pretty much it (sort of like what we experience with them). If only someone had told me that back then! It sure would have helped my poor digestive tract a little more!
Another worry that people often express is that the spirits they sense will end up attacking…or worse POSSESSING them! First off, possession is not common and there’s a LOT of conditions that must be in place for something like that to happen. For instance, people with substance abuse problems, mental illness (like schizophrenia for example) and severe depression are a little more susceptible. And, of course, not all people experiencing those things are going to be susceptible. Constant negative thoughts can (and often do!) attract negative entities and when combined with those conditions just mentioned…well, that could POSSIBLY put someone at RISK but again, it isn’t a done deal. So let’s just leave the possession thing alone. Besides, if a possession was going to occur, there would be a LOT more things going on than feeling watched!
A lot of people also say that along with those feelings of being watched, they also are having nightmares. Now, I think their concern is that the nightmares are somewhat prophetic or there’s worry that something LIKE it is going to happen “for real”. No. Nightmares are your mind’s way of acting out your fears. FEAR triggers nightmares. Fear causes us to imagine all sorts of horrors that we worry might happen. Now, although the imagination is the key to opening the door to the spirit world, it is also a way to act out our fears, our dreams, our desires…etc….prior to making SOME of them actually come about. Depending on what you give the most focus to, that is the sort of energy you invite into your life. And by the way, it has to be more than a passing thought or even casual “daydreaming” for it to come into actual creation. You have to CONCENTRATE and FOCUS your energy and do it with INTENTION to bring it into your reality.
As spiritual beings…which we ALL are…we are, at the most basic, most simplistic level…beings of ENERGY. Focused thought activates our source energy and become POWERED UP by our EMOTIONS. So, if you are constantly focused on a particular worry and you FEEL lots of anxiety and fear because of it…then you are generating energy that goes along with those sorts of thoughts. That generated energy attracts more of the same and so you get caught in this terrible negative cycle. Therefore, if you are in a house, for instance, that makes you feel like someone is watching you and you’ve determined it is haunted and since you are scared of ghosts your imagination kicks in, adding more fear to the idea and nightmares happen and more ghostly (paranormal) activity occurs and now you’re thinking you could be possessed or killed or maimed……..do you see how it goes? I’ve been guilty of it myself!
If only someone had told me that haunted or not, negative spirit or not…I HAVE THE POWER TO PROTECT MYSELF and they (meaning anything of any sort) can’t hurt me…then I may have enjoyed a lot more of those seven years that I lived in that freaky old farmhouse! And the thing is…I survived it just fine. As did my family. Every terrifying experience brought about no physical harm. Ever. In truth, pretty much everyone survives their ordeal in a haunted house. The few, few exceptions involve special conditions as mentioned above.
As for me, in any situation in which I have felt threatened (be it from a supernatural source or NOT), I prayed. Let me tell you right now, folks, prayer works! Prayer to the higher power (whoever that is to you…be it GOD, ALLAH, BUDDHA, etc…) WILL protect you. Some have said they did pray and yet the spirit stayed anyway. Well, the good ones aren’t going to go away if you prayed for negative spirits to be vanquished from your presence! Besides, there’s no need for protection from loving entities. And as to that, well some people don’t want loving spirits around them either! And that’s fine, it’s their choice to make. Loving entities will go away when you ask them to. Negative ones won’t. You need to work at it a bit more. But whether they are there or not, regardless how bad they are, you CAN protect yourself. You have within you all the power you need to do it!
It’s really no surprise that negative entities lurk in the dark, slithering along in the shadows. Their personal spiritual energy is “vibrating” to a much slower “speed” than those living in the “light” (which vibrates to a much higher rate of speed than anything in existence!). Let’s take a fan for example. If you spin the blade around with your hand…it isn’t very fast and you can see the blade. That is a slow speed, it generates no energy…no breeze, nothing. Plug that fan into an outlet and turn it on and guess what? You can’t see the blade because it is spinning around too fast. AND the energy is generating wind! Well, light is like the fan that is going at full speed (this is why we can’t see spirits, their personal energy is vibrating to a such a rate of speed they are “invisible”). All beings are high energy lifeforms. You see, we have two bodies…the physical body which is vibrating at a slow rate of speed (all MATTER is dense because its energy is moving slow enough to make it appear solid…like the fan blade that is not under electrical power) and we have our spiritual body which is “plugged” in to our source energy (God in my book). When a person’s spiritual energy is dim (meaning their awareness of God is slim to none) then they are operating on low energy which is considered negative (and I might add here that although negative energy is strong, it will never be stronger than positive energy!). Negative entities work best in the dark. That’s because the energy in those areas matches their own. When they try to operate in the light, they can easily become overpowered. So, by creating light…be it real or IMAGINED (focused thought…intention…is very powerful!) you are generating enough power to combat any and all negative entities. The “light” (of God!) PROTECTS you from its influence. End of story.
When I lived in that haunted farmhouse, I feared two things…I feared the negative spirits present there and I feared thunderstorms (in fact, I still don’t like those storms!). To protect myself from the negative spirits, I prayed. To protect our home from lightning strikes, I prayed and then imagined that God placed a protective shield around our home. EVERY time I did this, our home was left untouched by lightning. I forgot twice and deliberately didn’t do it ONE time (as an experiment) and in all three instances our house was struck! Coincidence? I think NOT.
So, my advice to those who sense ghosts and feel like they are being watched…I tell them that they are in no danger. Because they aren’t. They’d have to tell me a heck of a lot more than the following to think otherwise: I feel someone watching me. I hear my name being called. I hear footsteps. I felt someone touch me. I feel cold spots. I’m having nightmares. I heard knocking noises. My lights come off and on. My doors open and close. I’m losing things. (Just to name a few of the more common experiences!)
I think knowing you aren’t going to be attacked or possessed goes a long way to calming some of the fear. Right? Then I tell them how they can protect themselves: Prayer, Imagining light around them (or a bubble of protection, that works too!), and mentally sending them away. The thing is…the physical world belongs to the physically living. This is OUR world. We are the boss of it. So, by taking command of your immediate surroundings, you determine what can and can’t happen. You do this by DELIBERATE, FOCUSED INTENTION.
My favorite form of protection is to imagine myself glowing bright from the inside out. My personal “light” (my spiritual energy) is so amazingly powerful, I don’t need anything else. But some people feel like they need more…so that’s where other things come into play…such as wearing a cross for example. If you believe that is going to protect you…then it will! In Okinawa, Japan, (where I was stationed for three years while serving in the Air Force), they put statues of these mythological creatures called Shi-shi dogs at the entrance to public parks and buildings and personal homes. The Shi-shi dogs have two functions: One keeps the negative spirits away…and the other allows the good spirits to enter! So, those work too! Whatever you believe in will work. And here’s the kicker…whether you BELIEVE in your imaginary light as being protective or NOT, it WILL STILL WORK! Why? Because light is positive energy. That is what it is. Not believing in it isn’t going to change anything. Just like if you are to look at a cup and say, “No, I don’t believe that’s a cup.” Well, guess what…it’s still a cup isn’t it? It is what it is. Don’t you just love that saying? I’ll say it again…it is, what it is.
I just want to add one more thing about why so many people feel like “someone” is around. The fact is, spirits are everywhere! They share the same space as us…just on a different level of consciousness (also known as realm or plane). And when conditions are right, we’re going to feel them…sense them. And of course, since they are around, it’s natural to think they are watching us.
Memorial Day will soon be upon us. It’s a day to remember military service members who have “fallen”… transformed from physical life to their natural spiritual one! We give thought to them, we thank them for their service to our country, and we remember our loved ones whether they served in the military or not. Memorial Day has come to encompass all who flourish “over there”. There’s no better way to show honor to them than to REMEMBER them and think of them with LOVE in our hearts! That, my friends, is positive energy in motion!!
So, I’ve rambled on enough, I think! I just wanted to share some of what I’ve learned with you because it seems to be a general concern for people who visit my blog! And before I close, I do want to put it out there that I’m going to celebrate Memorial Day by putting my first book in the Tess Schafer-Medium series “Be Still, My Love” up for FREE on Amazon.com (ebook only!) from 25 May to 27 May! (UK folks can click here),
Also, to one lucky commenter on this post (who I don’t know PERSONALLY), I will send a signed physical copy of the first two books in the series (Hidden Voices is book two…UK click here if you want to check that one out)! The names of those leaving a comment and requesting they be entered in the drawing, will go in “a hat” and get shuffled around. I might even post the video to show how it “all went down”! (smile) The commenter whose name is drawn will need to give me an address to send the books to…and I promise to never use the address again! The name drawn will be announced in the blog comments under their name so if you are not tracking the comments or signed up to follow this blog, you’ll have to leave me an email address so I may notify you (send it via the “contact” page in order to keep your email private!). And again, unless you tell me to put that email address on an email list to alert you of future book deals and promotions and release dates, I won’t keep it on file. I am willing to mail to any country in which paranormal books are legal! (smile)
The reason why I want to put Be Still, My Love up for free for a couple days is because it’s the first in a series of five books (so far!) and the medium in it (Tess Schafer, the main character) is grieving over the loss of her husband. Now, he wasn’t in the military and never served…BUT, she loved him and she misses him…just as we do for all our loved ones who have crossed into spirit! It just so happens, though, that she goes on a healing vacation to a haunted resort on the coast of Maine and meets Kade Sinclair, who is a Marine. His military career ended when he was severely injured in a roadside bomb explosion that killed five of his buddies. He’s having a tough time dealing with all that and Tess helps him heal a bit (he really deals with his issues in Ghost Trouble, but that’s another story!) (UK folks can check out that book here). She also receives some healing from her own grief which is great because no one should be sad for their entire lives! Additionally, Tess shares her spiritual beliefs, many of which I too believe and discuss in various blog posts!
Given all that, I thought it was a great book for a day like Memorial Day! My twenty years in the military are forever ingrained into my heart and my thoughts and creating Kade was my way of showing honor to all the wonderful military people out there! He’s a good guy and he deserves to be happy…despite everything. No matter what.
May you all have a safe, happy, glorious and loving Memorial Day!! Blessings to all and Peace out.
Can you tell me the prayer please…they spirits are everyehere i go. I move to new apt they are there…im sick of it…one time i came home to my apt filled with this gray thick smoke but unothing on fire.. my closet had these two men one black with dreads and onevwhite bald with something over his mouth anyways my friend is standing in front of me and i backed into the corner started crying asking him to shut the door hysterically now im begging him as i turned my back to them it felt like they wrre burning memy back turnedbright red the burning stoppes when he closed the door he calked a cab to take me to hospital but i was to scared to leave out my apt i seen somethings with bright yellow eyes i think im crazy but i have experiences all the time and so doez my kids…please help do i need that rock i read about…i was getting scratches on me…
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Jamie, I am so sorry that I have not been on my blog for so long. I am going to be better about visiting it every day. Are you still having problems? Blessings and prayers!
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My name is Chris I’m 40 years old for a while now there’s times in my house where I feel like I’m being watched and sometimes I don’t it’s like sometimes Energy’s on sometimes it’s off but there’s times where I always feel like if I turn around I’m going to see somebody standing there and I don’t get scared by much and the feeling it gives me just has me confused. Lately I’ve been going to bed and I’ll start here in like somebody snapping their fingers out in the hallway then I’ll hear like a humming noise and see images of stuff and feel like I’m getting stood over buy more than one person or whatever. The other night I went to bed it was 11:15 I look at my phone before I sat it down it was quiet in the room my wife was laying next to me she was asleep and I heard the snapping noise and it got really quiet like dead quiet and I started hearing a humming noise not like somebody humming like a vibrating electric humming is the best way to explain it and it was coming also from outside my room it was very faint both of the noises I laid there for what seemed 20 or 30 minutes having different pictures in my mind and wondering what it all was and my wife shut up like she was having a nightmare and I reached over and put my hand on her back and ask her if she was okay and she said yeah what time is it and I said maybe 12 and she reached over and grabbed your phone and said its 3:30 and I had not been sleeping so I lost like 3 hours and my heart’s beating fast right now talking about it I don’t know what it was I don’t know if I just fell asleep and didn’t know it but that kind of thing never happens to me and I’ve been waking up feeling panic at 3:30 or within minutes of. So I don’t know if I’m looking for an explanation I’m really looking to see if anybody else has a similar saying happen to them. I’m a very open person I do believe in Energies but I’m also a down-to-earth person that can usually make sense of things but not this I have other things that happened but this is my main concern. Any response or reply would be helpful thank you
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Hi Chris! I have to say, this is the first time I’ve heard anything like this. It is a very curious thing and like you, I’d be on the internet looking for an explanation! I do know that it is easy to fall asleep and not realize it. That happens to me all the time, actually. Even my husband will say, I’ve been awake, I haven’t even fallen asleep yet (when I shake him for snoring) and I’ll tell him…no, you’ve been asleep for awhile. But as to the snapping and humming noises, I just am not sure what that’s about. As for feeling people around you…that is indeed the case. We all are surrounded by loved ones and angels all the time. Because you are aware of something going on, it makes you more aware and so your senses are heightened and you are feeling their presence. My experience has been that if a certain time upsets you, then in another life, something happened to you during that time and your soul is remembering it. The other thing is that between midnight and 3:30, the belief is the veil between this world and the next is at it’s thinnest. I think it’s because you are so relaxed during this time that you are more connected spiritually than any other time. I don’t believe you have anything to fear, though! To feel safe and protect yourself…the only thing you need to do is activate your personal “light” (spiritual energy). To give it an image you can understand, I imagine a light shining from within and surrounding me like a protective cocoon. Sounds too simple but you are dealing with spirit and so must protect yourself through spiritual means and you do it through imagery and INTENTION. It has worked for me without fail every time! Then, once you are safe…you are free to explore the situation and see what is going on without concern for your safety. I’m not sure if someone is trying to get your attention or if you are actually just very sensitive to spirit and so you are having these experiences. It might help to connect with a medium to see if they can help figure it out. If there is a Spiritualist church near you, that would be a good place to start! (smile) Good luck! And please come back and let me know how things are going!! Blessing and loving light to you.
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im a 14 year old girl that happened to me except i was in bed alone, and I’m also terrified
i now I’m young and you probably think in joking but it scares me i also have been feeling like I’ve been watched or there is something near me since i was around 10
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When I was 14, I had so many realistic dreams, many of which came true, and a lot of nightmares! The nightmares happened because of all my fears. I lived in a very bad, haunted house and the bad spirit there scared me something awful! Although nothing bad ever happened to me, I was still frightened all the time. Now, though, I understand things a lot better and realize that I had nothing to fear. Almost everyone at some point or another has felt someone watching them. Our spirit guides and guardian angels are always with us and most of the time, it is them that we feel! But, so you can feel safe, remember that you are a spiritual being living in a physical body. Your spiritual energy is very powerful, especially when you are focused on it and directing it (giving it something to do…like protecting you). So think of a bright ball of light in the center of your being and see it in your mind as glowing outward, filling your body and glowing around you. Know that when you are actively imagining this, you are activating your spiritual light to protect you! Negative entities cannot come inside your spiritual light so see it glowing (in your mind’s eye) as far out around you as you like. You have all you need to be safe in the world. Blessings to you!
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Hi…from the time I’ve been small i was very afraid that something is watching me…im not sure if its there to protect me or to hurt me…i can’t even close my eyes coz i feel like it gets closer to me when i do and that really scared me….i sometimes have dreams of evil and i wake up in fear to see if anything is in my room i get sooo afraid to even close my eyes again…once i even felt it touch my hair i turnd and no one was there what does this mean
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Hi Nikita! Are you still having problems with this? Sending blessings your way!
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Hi almost 5 years ago my mother passed away it happened we I was at work So I was moving back and fort I can see this smoked swirling following me and at the time I kept thinking is there something wrong with my eyesight and a few minutes later I got the call the mom was gone can a spirit come to say good by? Isabella in az
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Yes! It happens far more often than you might think! Not only do they come to us at the moment of passing into spirit but sometimes they come to us BEFORE they’ve passed into spirit! It’s always a blessing and very special when you recognize what has happened … that you were visited. Blessings!
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Hey,
I don´t really now how I should call you so just hey.
My name is Kassandra and I have started looking though your block. You seem to know alot so I have a question. Since I had gotten 15 or 16 (its some years back now) I have this weird thing to sense when someone is at my house. Its like I know when someone is there who is not supposed to be. I don´t know who it is how this person looks, I just know there is someone. I found through this ( I don´t wanna call it abilty) two burglas.
I know I should be happy but there is a catch. I have the feeling that someone is always next to me. I have this Idea that it is not me who has the ability. I think it is the thing. I can´t really sense a ghost so I don´t know what it is. Do you have some experience with that?
How do I find out if this thing is good for me or bad?
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Hello Kassandra! Most people at some time or another have a feeling that someone is near and because they can’t see who it is, they get scared. Feeling scared doesn’t mean it’s a bad spirit, it just means that you have an UNKNOWN entity around and naturally that can be scary! We have an almost INSTINCTUAL response to the unknown because it keeps us alive. Sensing other entities…either physical or spiritual…is a natural ability we all have, given to us at birth so we have a fighting chance at survival. It was something that was really needed back in the cavemen Era. You can always protect yourself from negative entities by imagining your spiritual light shining brightly from within you spreading outward. I say this a lot because it’s the truth, as simple as it sounds, it’s the absolute truth! Since our guardian angels are with us ALL the time and also our spirit guides, it is often them that we feel! So don’t be alarmed. I sense quite strongly that the spirits around you are not ones to be concerned about. Besides, if they were bad…you’d KNOW it, you wouldn’t be wondering. Another thing you can do is ask your angels to protect you! They are always happy to help when ASKED! They can’t do anything without being invited to do so. Peace and blessings to you!
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Sorry to waste your time.. As a twelve year old i feel there is something under my bed in fact i hear it every night ive felt it watching me and heard it too.. I was feeling around one night as i was really scared and felt two hands on my matress i obviously freaked out and slept on the lounge and on another occurance i was sleeping with my dog and the coat hanger moved thats when she started looking into one corner i stared into that corner for a few minutes then thats when i saw ‘it’ as i looked into sammys eyes i met eyes with a young girl (around my age) she wore sailor style clothes and was a brunette but she disepeared quickly.. I know our house has only had two residents (with families) nobody has died.. ever and at the moment (for me 3:00 in the morning) mice are jumping through windows and going under my bed like they are being drawn to it
Please Help
A Worried-Sick person
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Hello! So sorry you are being frightened by these experiences. Scary as they are, it sounds to me that things haven’t gotten progressively WORSE, just more of the same…right? You are not being terrorized by a negative spirit…if you were, it would progressively get worse. One thing, though, is to not make “friends” with something that you are not comfortable having around. When a spirit entity is near and you start talking to it…that encourages other spirits to come around. So here is what you do…you imagine a light shining within you…just above your belly button…this is your solar plexus area and the spiritual center of our bodies. Just imagine a light there shining bright and then see it get bigger and brighter until its filling your whole body and shining around you. You can even imagine the light filling your room! This is your spiritual power and it is REAL! You are a spiritual person in a physical body and by using your imagination, you access your spiritual power! When you are FOCUSED on your light (your spiritual power) that makes it even stronger and negative entities of any kind cannot harm you or even enter your personal light! Every one of us have guardian angels that stay with us at ALL times. Sometimes we actually FEEL them near and we get scared because we think it’s a ghost but it’s just them…you are picking up on their spiritual energy. They are always happy to help us when we ASK for them to help! When you get scared, ASK them to help protect you! They WILL, I PROMISE! They can only help you if you ASK them because otherwise they cannot interfere with your life. YOU are in charge of your life and so it must be YOU to ask for their assistance. The problem with fear is that invites more fear! So whenever you start feeling scared, activate your light and ask your angels to surround you with their protective energy. You don’t NEED their help because you are actually powerful enough but it’s always comforting to know that angels are helping out too! Your age is a popular age for spirits to connect with us. They are not trying to terrify you. Before going to sleep at night, imagine your light shining around your bed and ask your angels to keep you safe and you should sleep just fine! Blessings and peace to you!!
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I have a very special gift which I inherited from my father .I can see and talk to the dead . My dad knew when I was small but kept it from me i found out on my own when I was in grade 8 and now in grade 10 I accept it. I also get those feelings and I help ghosts cross over everyday and sometimes it’s hard to control but I manage . In terms of possession I have been possessed before and its not a good thing I can’t give detail as I don’t remember what happened . I can sense when a ghost is near and I can go into an abandoned building and tell you from start to finish what happened in there .when I see multiple ghosts my mom calls it ghost frenzy and she even calls me medium or ghost girl sometimes .
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How very cool! Just be sure to learn all you can about your gift! Keep it positive, keep your guardian angels in mind, stay closely connected to your spirit guide and always work with loving light! Blessings!!
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Hello Deborah!!!
I am new to you as an author to read. However , I am so glad I found you and your books!!! I am so excited to start reading “Be Still, My love” !!! I too have had experience in the past they are the watchers. but my most memorable is the living spirits that contacted me!
I was getting ready for open heart surgery. I was in pretty bad shape and heavily medicated getting ready to roll the bed out of the room. My husband, Mark, bent down and whispered in my ear. I did not remember what he whispered as he kissed my cheek and we rolled out of the room. During surgery, they stop you heart and fill the cavity with ice water.
All of a sudden I see myself laying on the table, flatling, and lifeless while they all scurry to get me hooked up to heart pump and get my heart started again. Then I see him, Mark walk into the room and take my hand. I can see through him and no one else is noticing he is here. He pulls me down and sits me on the table on my body and gentle brushes my cheek with his hand and bends in to kiss my cheek. he says something again that I don’t understand and I can’t hear. Tears in his eyes he slowly walks out of the surgical room and my heart and body immediately go back to normal…they finish the surgery with no problems.
Three days later, I died again. He was at work but he was there in silence with me. The same thing happened and I came back. Four days later, I wake to him by my side sitting in the chair and holding my hand. He had been at the hospital since the last incident.
Apparently they put me in an induced coma state so I could heal. But every time he came in the room and spoke, my body went haywire and I kept trying to get up. They sent him away but he slept in the lounge and came back in the morning. As long as he didn’t speak,I was calm and did not fight the restraints and try to sit up!
The image had haunted me for almost 3 years! I would ask him and he would just say he did not want to talk about it?!? He would almost shut me right out and become dark,sinister, angry and afraid all at the same time.
Then one night I had the same dream that I had 3 to 4 times a week. however this time was different…I could hear all remarks and conversations loud and clear! As they roll the bed to go t surgery he bends down kisses my cheek and says, ” Don’t you dare leave me!! Kisses me again and I roll away. Everything in the operating room happened again. I dart out of my body and everything happens as before. He knows how much pain I was in and how terrified I was at that moment.
He takes my hand,sits me down and helps me lay back. He bends down again, kisses me cheek and whispers in my ear, “don’t you dare leave me!”
When I remembered and asked him about it because I was having the dream every night! He said everything happened as I saw…except… He saw me die all 3 times! He was in the roommate that time. When he saw it the last time, he was almost to the hospital when they called him. He said it was all true. This is the only time it will ever be discussed and we will never talk about it again!
In shock, I just sat there for a moment and listened to his visions! I was at a loss for words. Then he said, ” This conversation is over and will never be discussed again! By the way, Honey, “tears in his eyes, he looks over at me. He pulls me close and kisses my cheek and says, ” Dont you dare leave me!”. He kisses my cheek and as quick as the tears and softness came…they were gone. he pulled the car out of the wal-mart parking lot and it has never been discussed again!
I have told this story to no one! I tried with my mother but she said it was the drugs and how sick I was! But it times I feel alone and very sad or hurt, I see his image and hear is words and feel his love and his tears. Through all my surgeries after that, and we are in the 20s and counting now…he is always there with his spirit saying ,” don’t you dare leave me!”
I felt the need to tell you about it! Dont know why but could not stop typing!?! please excuse my grammer and spelling errors! I was typing as fast as i could!!
I have had other things happen and dreams take place but this is my heart, my soul,my guiding light…This is my Husband, Mark!!!
this is similar to being watched. you feel a presence, hair on the back of your neck and arms stand up and you get goose pimples. You check window and door locks. Yes, I have felt that too!!!
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Teresa
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Hi Teresa! This is certainly an interesting story. It seems you and your husband share quite a connection! Sometimes things happen to us that are just so beyond our comprehension that we would rather not deal with them. This might be the case for your husband. Some people just are not comfortable with “the unexplained” and that’s fine. We are all at different junctures with our lives. The fact is, we are spiritual beings and when spiritual related things become part of our physical world…meaning we have conscious knowledge of it, we tend to think it’s strange and bizarre but it isn’t strange at all! It’s too bad we weren’t more connected that we are but then I guess that would defeat the purpose for being in this physical world of ours! It seems that those who go through some sort of major physical trauma…such as you did…discover that spiritual connection and so you become more aware of it over time. Once you know something…you can’t UNknow it! I am so glad you are enjoying Be Still, My Love! I really wanted to share some of my experiences through a fictional story to help people understand the process of connecting to spirit. The fact is, death is not the end of life, it’s just the end of THIS particular consciousness. As for the giveaway, that has ended. Sorry! But I’ll be doing more and posting them here on my blog when I do. If you are following my blog, you’ll get the notice. I’d like to plan something at least once a month but need to firm that up! Thanks so much for writing in and sharing your story. Many blessings to you!
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Love this post! Very informative and comforting, your years of experience inspires trust in your words. I just had to share….everywhere 🙂
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Thank you so much for your kind words! It’s nice to know people find my rambling helpful! Thank you for sharing!! Blessings to you.
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Reblogged this on Paranormalogistically and commented:
What an informative and beautiful post 🙂 I just had to share.
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